Introduction
At Women’s Health, we believe you don’t need a partner to enjoy the pleasures of oral sex. Brands like Lelo and Womanizer have advanced tongue-mimicking technology, making it possible to experience the sensation of oral sex without a partner. These toys use air-pulsing and sonic wave technology to mimic the feeling of a tongue on your vulva, says , PhD, a sex educator and historian at Good Vibes.
The Science Behind Oral Sex Toys
Oral sex toys primarily target the clitoris, which is filled with nerve endings and erectile tissue, similar to a penis. This tissue becomes engorged during arousal, making it crucial for orgasm production, explains Lyndsey Harper, MD, an OB-GYN and CEO of Rosy. These toys can also be used on other sensitive areas like the nipples, anus, and even penises, according to Wendasha Jenkins Hall, PhD, a sex educator.
Choosing the Right Oral Sex Toy
Considerations for Clitoral Stimulation
When selecting an oral sex toy, consider the size of the toy’s mouth opening and whether it offers different head sizes for a customized fit. Queen advises that clitoral size varies, so it’s important to find a toy that suits your anatomy.
Shape and Comfort
Ensure the toy is comfortable to hold and easy to adjust. It’s a bonus if it can be used by a partner during play, says Hall.
Preferred Sensations and Intensity
Think about the sensations you enjoy, whether licking, sucking, or both. Consider the strength of the vibrations and your sensitivity level. Some toys offer multiple settings, while others are more streamlined.
Material Safety
Laurie Mintz, PhD, advises choosing toys made from safe materials like medical-grade silicone or stainless steel. Avoid porous materials, which can harbor germs.
Noise Level and Power Source
Discretion is key, especially in shared living spaces. We tested toys for noise levels, preferring quieter options. Decide if you prefer battery-operated or rechargeable toys, considering charge time and duration of use.
Budget Considerations
Sex toys range in price. Beginners might opt for affordable options to explore preferences, while those with established tastes might invest in more expensive models. Remember, higher cost doesn’t always equate to better quality, Hall notes.
Testing and Recommendations
Over the past year, Women’s Health testers have reviewed numerous oral sex toys to compile a list of the top-selling and most popular options. Editors, including Lindsay Geller and Lydia Wang, consulted sex educators and experts like Wendasha Jenkins Hall, PhD, Lisa Finn, Lyndsey Harper, MD, and Laurie Mintz, PhD, to ensure comprehensive recommendations.